"If it were you... what would you do? Borderline personality disorder has exhausted me, she doesn't cooperate with me at all..."
"It's normal that she doesn't cooperate with you. The inherent trait of borderline personality disorder is instability, using suicide and other means to threaten those they consider important. Isn't that a typical diagnostic feature? She uses suicide to threaten you, which shows that you are already important to her. What you need to do now is to provide her with consistent and stable emotions, to let her know you value her, to prove it over and over until she believes in her heart that you do value her too. This may take a long time, but during this time, not only can her condition be alleviated, but you are also finding yourself. Isn't that great?"
Being a psychologist is a very tough job.
