This kind of unwillingness is quite normal, probably a feeling every man has.
Especially because it's related to Alvin's upbringing and growth environment, as he was accustomed to getting everything he wanted from a young age.
He himself is excellent and talented, so his sense of unwillingness might be stronger.
Or perhaps it's because he's still young.
In youth, one is always somewhat reckless, certainly not as composed as Di Mingchen.
Or perhaps his affection for Miss Nangong Ran is just the beauty of love at first sight, not as profound as Di Mingchen's all-encompassing devotion.
But John doesn't think this is Alvin's fault; everyone has their own stance, Di Mingchen does, and naturally Alvin does too.
When you don't agree with someone's point of view, you might dislike them, but it doesn't mean they're necessarily a bad person.
