Especially you, in the past few years, your life has been lackluster. I've reminded you many times to grab hold of something, but you're too playful, having set up a couple of companies without success, just a passing enthusiasm. Your father spoils you; if something fails, so be it, losing money is just losing money.
Just think about it, if your father were no longer around, and the love from him were gone, would your older brother, once he's in power, pamper you like your father does, unstintingly giving you resources?
We wanted you to marry well, but in the past few years, you were unwilling, dragging it out until you're thirty. Now, there isn't any particularly good candidate for such a marriage. You looked down on those people, saying you wanted freedom. Fine, you were given freedom, but after all this freedom, what do you have in your hands? A husband or in-laws that can support you?
