There's a technique in romantic relationships called "introducing competition."
The principle behind this, according to the famous relationship expert He Yimeng, is that from primitive society to now, humans have maintained a psychological mechanism: the instinct to chase what is not yet possessed.
In other words, humans are inherently cheap. The more something is not ours, the more we want to chase it. Once we have it, we don't cherish it.
So, in the interaction between men and women, you shouldn't give the other person the illusion that "I've got you for sure, and no matter what, you won't leave me."
Even when a relationship stabilizes, it's important to stay excellent, pay attention to external and internal cultivation, and enhance personal charm. Make your partner feel: "Although I have better options, I still choose to be with you because I love you."
